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The 40-Year Plan:
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Index Pages

hiatus

6/2/10 - 9/15/10

2/25/10 - 6/2/10

1/10/10 - 2/24/10

11/5/09 - 1/9/10

9/23/09 - 11/5/09

7/14/09 - 9/23/09

6/12/09 - 7/14/09

4/5/09 - 6/11/09

3/13/09 - 4/4/09

2/27/09 - 3/13/09

1/28/09 - 2/27/09

12/20/08 - 1/28/09

11/28 - 12/20/08

11/01 - 11/27/08

09/26 - 10/31/08

08/23 - 09/26/08

07/04 - 08/22/08

06/11 - 7/04/08

05/19 - 6/10/08

04/26 - 5/18/08

04/08 - 4/26/08

03/23 - 4/07/08

03/05 - 3/22/08

02/11 - 03/05/08

01/29 - 02/11/08

12/19/7 - 01/29/8

11/20 - 12/19/07

10/17 - 11/19/07

09/16 - 10/17/07

07/04 - 09/15/07

06/05 - 07/03/07

05/21 - 06/05/07

04/30 - 05/21/07

04/23 - 04/30/07

04/16 - 04/23/07

04/09 - 04/16/07

04/02 - 04/09/07

03/26 - 04/02/07

03/19 - 03/26/07

03/12 - 03/19/07

03/06 - 03/12/07

02/26 - 03/05/07

02/19 - 02/25/07

02/12 - 02/19/07

02/05 - 02/12/07

01/29 - 02/04/07

01/22 - 01/28/07

01/15 - 01/21/07

01/08 - 01/14/07

01/01 - 01/07/07

Topics

College Sports as Minor Leagues

Connecticut

CT Politics 2010

Tom Foley 2010

CT Juvenile Training School

Echoes from the Streets

Education

Elections

End the Drug War

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Hartford

New! Hartford 2009!

—City Hall '07

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International

Iraq & Middle East

—Syria

Gov. M. Jodi Rell

Jim Calhoun

Justice Robert H. Jackson

Law School

Lester Grinspoon

"Letters from the Belly": Prison

Mayor Eddie Perez

Media

Miscellaneous

Morning Radio Chronicles

National Affairs

Obama As Candidate

President Obama

Peace

Sen. Lieberman

Stop the Sprawl

Time

Archives

Chronological order

Columns from 2006

Columns from 2004-05



Exam study break, 12/17/09 10:15 a.m.

Cross-posted at MLN.

Bernie Sanders: Man among children and clowns (from the Waitsfield, VT world-famous Fourth of July Parade, 2009)

Scapegoating - whether it happens to Howard Dean or Ralph Nader - is not a healthy phenomena for the American family. The blame game never stops, though.

Bagnewsnotes has an interesting thread about why Dr. Dean is being silenced and its consequences. This thread actually dates back to 2005. But the BAG reposted it because of its relevance today.

Dean's fellow Vermonter Bernie Sanders was forced to withdraw his universal healthcare, 767-page Medicare for All bill yesterday by Clown Coburn of Oklahoma. Coburn demanded the clerk of the Senate read the entire bill, forcing the Senate to stop for 10 hours. Sanders backed down.

And then we are all pissed at Lieberman for derailing healthcare and the medicare buy in at 55, but he too makes a convenient target. He in turn blames us bloggies for his decision, but we make a convenient target. This is the healthcare reform Obama wanted all along.

Obama has jettisoned the netroots, he is using Lieberman to push his agenda. Lieberman is using the moment to punish the netroots, and blame us. We in turn will find someone else to blame, like Lieberman, instead of Obama.

This ties in yesterday to the discussion Matt W. and I had about Nader and third parties, which of course never comes to any resolution. But discussion is positive.

On Bagnewsnotes, I found a link describing the pathology of scapegoating, which I thought worth reprinting here:

Scapegoating is a serious family dysfunctional problem with one member of the family or a social group being blamed for small things, picked on and constantly put down. In scapegoating, one of the authority figures has made a decision that somebody in the family has to be the bad guy. The mother or father makes one child bad and then looks for things (sometimes real, but most often imagined) that are wrong.

There are different reasons one child is singled out to be scapegoated. Perhaps the child is vulnerable. Or the child is hyperactive, noncompliant or acts out. Sometimes the scapegoated child is viewed as weak who cannot defend himself. At times the parent heaps on the blame because he cannot stand the child who has traits and characteristics that are similar to his own! Sometimes the child has personality traits that are similar to a disliked relative (She reminds me of my aunt Tillie who I never liked.) Other children in the family can pick up the scapegoating pattern and join in taunting and hurting the scapegoated child. In extremely dysfunctional families, the parent may goad the other children to pick on the disfavored one.

Further, the author, Lynne Namka, Ed. D, notes:

Often an insecure parent will be aggressive with one of the children to vent his own sense of frustration at not doing well in life. Aggression in families creates decrease in self-esteem in the children. Aggression, the use of force against another human being, is always present in scapegoating. As Elizabeth A. Kaspar says, “The aggressive person is one who tries to dominate others. Aggressiveness, too, can take several forms.

The aggressive person is frequently rude and humiliating, (e.g., “What do you mean, you aren’t going to do it?”), or the aggressive person can become self-righteous (e.g., “I am only insisting on this for your own good.”), or she/he can resort to being manipulative (e.g., “If you refuse, what will everyone think of you?”).”

Bullying is always scapegoating. Abuse is always scapegoating. It seems as if we humans as a species seem to need someone to vent our anger on and make wrong. Scapegoating is a projection defense. It is the ego saying “If I can put the blame on you, I don’t have to recognize and take responsibility for the negative qualities in myself. What I can’t stand about myself, I really hate in you and have to attack you for it in order to deny that I have the same quality.”

Yeah, so, back to work.


12/14/09 Exam Study Break, 8:23 a.m.

Watch this movie. My heart beat fast the whole 96 minutes. Sin Nombre. Incredibly done. More later.










11/5/09

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Cnn Screen Grab

Are you on the list? CNN Explores Fusion Centers

Maverick II

UPWIND: Halfway Around the World on Maverick II

Rudy Gay

NCAA Sports: Amateur Students or Pro Athletes

City of Hartford Seal

Hartford: Life in The 'Beat

Bill of Rights

Ken Krayeske's InauguRell Arrest Story Repository

NEW!!! Krayeske v. Hartford, Year III

Damascus at nightThe Gov. M. Jodi Rell Inaugural Caption Contest & Photo Essay


Damascus at nightDispatches from Damascus: Check out reporting from Damascus, Syria and the Iraqi border.


Links

1,000 Friends CT

Adbusters

Archive.org

Angry Arab News Service

Any Soldier

BagNewsNotes

Beat Bike Blog

Central CT Bicycle Alliance

CT Blogger

CT Bob

CTLocalPolitics

CTNewsJunkie

Colin McEnroe

Common Dreams

The Cool Justice Report

CounterPunch

Crooks and Liars

Democracy Now!

Firedoglake

Free Higher Ed!

Green Party U.S.

HFD Courant Alumni Assoc.

Hartford IMC Blog

Hat City Blog

Huffington Post

IONHartford

Kung-Fu Monkey

Media Attaché

Mira! Hartford

My Left Nutmeg

New Haven Independent

Orient Lodge

Princess Sparkle Pony

Real Hartford

Rubi Studios

Spazeboy

Scary Bunnies

Thornton 4 Gov

Truthout

Unifocus TV

Urban Compass

Weliveinhartford...

We the People (Kevin Brookman)

Youth Outlook

New Youth Comm

Youth Vote

Newspapers

CT Post

Danbury News-Times

Fairfield County Weekly

Haaretz

Hartford Advocate

Hartford Courant

Manchester J-I

Record-Journal

New London Day

New Haven Advocate

New Haven Register

New York Times

Stamford Advocate

Washington Post

Waterbury Rep-Am

Worcester T&G


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